五十年代,由于社会的风气尚未够开放,那时候的情侣给心上人献上一方手帕,礼轻情意重,揣在兜里,甜在心上。
六十年代:在“红色”的潮流中,爱情依然是真金不怕火炼。又实用又革命的《毛主席语录》成为恋人之间最好的定情信物,如果一方是军人,往往会送毛主席徽章。那个年代的爱情,有着一致的人生信仰。而那些微微带着时代特色的定情物,就显得格外的珍贵。
七十年代:有了意中人,相送的定情物十分简单、随意。情怀初动的时刻,为自己梦里的女孩骑着自行车走街串巷,只为寻找一本合适的笔记本。悄悄地递给她,女孩满脸羞涩地接过来,一转身跑了。夜晚独自难眠,那个如丁香花一样的女孩,会明白日记本中深藏的爱意。
八十年代:80年代的示爱方式开始变得丰富多彩,自由恋爱使我们更勇敢地表达自己的爱情。“交个朋友吧”,有人这么说道。情窦初开的年纪,捧一叠精致的信纸,趴在被窝里述说缠绵的心事。清晨起床,将写好的信笺叠一个心形,递到爱人的手里。一切尽在不言中。
九十年代:精神与物质的追求开始在爱情中齐头并进,人们学会了开口说:我爱你,送玫瑰和巧克力成为经典的示爱方式。夕阳夕下,有情男女。捧着玫瑰花的男孩站在风中,温柔地等待心爱的女孩。牵着手,一起吃甜蜜的巧克力。爱的情绪被风吹散,融化在空气里。
进入21世纪:手机的普及让短信风靡一时,不知道多少人的爱情是在拇指间孵化的。不过,短信也不新鲜了。求爱当然是要用手机的。一对有情男女,两只手机,一晃就变身浪漫爱情戏中的男女主角,乐此不疲地上演都市里的爱情故事。
在现在,人们更多是利用网络,发个电子邮件,或者在QQ上说句我爱你,这样既不伤了和气也不那么复杂。
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